Your path to support

Grief You Feel You Can’t Share

A place for losses that feel private, misunderstood, or difficult to speak about.

You may be grieving a relationship others do not recognize, the person you thought you knew, or a family life changed by someone else’s actions. Some people call grief that is not acknowledged by others disenfranchised grief. You do not need a label to seek support.

When someone you love has caused harm

You can acknowledge the harm someone caused and still need support for what you have lost. Seeking that support does not excuse their actions. You do not have to maintain contact, reconcile, or forgive to use these resources.

Family guidance

Stop It Now: Nonoffending Partners and Caregivers

Guidance for people affected by a loved one’s sexual offending, with information about family impact, support, and protecting children.

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UK based resource

Talking Forward

A UK based organization offering peer support for relatives of adults investigated for online sexual offences. Contact the organization to confirm eligibility, particularly if you live outside the UK.

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Grief education

Understanding Disenfranchised Grief

Educational information about grief that others may not acknowledge, including losses that are not deaths and grief affected by stigma.

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Grieving someone’s incarceration?

Find peer support for the impact of a loved one’s incarceration.

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